little-mx-switch:

Guys I’m seeing my girl in less than a week and we’re intending on having sexy alone time

which, as we discussed two months ago (yes, it’s been that long since I last saw her), could include fucking with a strap-on and fisting, among other things

I haven’t fisted anyone before but I’m not too worried because I’ve taken a workshop on it and I’ve been fisted and I know that the receiving person pretty much leads the whole process

BUT OMG GUYS

The fucking part

Ahh

I have not really fucked a woman before! And yes, she knows this, but I still feel really self conscious. I suck with a strap-on, I’ve tried fucking Kev and it was a HUGE fail both times. And I know, I know, it takes practice because it’s different and stuff but, well, fuck it I’m a Virgo which means PERFECTIONIST and I DON’T LIKE TO BE BAD AT ANYTHING I WANT REAL BAD

Also I’m her Daddy and I feel a lot of pressure because she’s like ten years older than me and normally a Domme.

Any advice? :(

Go slow!  The first time I fucked a girl my cock kept…falling out.  It was hilarious and horrifying all at the same time.  Make sure you are in a position where you are both comfortable.  I like fucking someone doggy style, but you are a bit more likely to fall out that way, especially if your cock isn’t really stiff.

I also found that getting a little, hm, rotating hip movement going was always well received. 

A little bit of lube, even if your girl is nice and wet, is never a bad thing either, I found that helps.  At the very least, it’s fun to make the sub lube your cock. 

Personally, I found that as a fat woman, using a longer cock is easier.   Your mileage will very based on your own size and position.